Stolen from around, slightly meta

[sweetsalome]

Where it says "Yes/No" = means whether you've engaged in that type of activity before. Put "Y" for yes or "N" for no.

Rating scale for checklist:
0 = Don't ever ask me to do this. (HARD limit)
1 = I don't want to do this activity, but if it's important to my partner I can be persuaded. (soft limit)
2 = I'm not interested in this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of me.
3 = I'm willing to do this activity, but it has no real appeal for me.
4 = I usually like doing this activity, at least on an occasional basis.
5 = I love doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
6 = I love this activity, it makes me "hot", and would like it as often as possible.

Note1. Some of these may fall under a few categories (example: Blindolds can be Humiliation & mental bondage)
Note2. Some of these could be used for health reasons too (example forced exercising)



CORPORAL PUNISHMENT
Y/N # Activity
Y 5 Belts
Y 5 Bruises
Y 5 Cane (leather)
Y 5 Cane (plastic)
Y 5 Cat (braided)
Y 4 Cat (no knots)
Y 5 Crop
Y 5 Leather Paddle
Y 5 Paddle
Y 5 Spanking
Y 4 Whip
Y 5 Wooden Hair Brush
Y 5 Wooden Paddle
ROLE PLAY
Y/N # Activity
N 2 Act as objects (cars, furniture, etc)
N 4 Arrested
N 1 Baby
N 1 Burglar Attack
Y 4 Call Girl
N 2 Cowgirl
N 3 Interrogation Scene
N 4 Kidnap Scene
Y 6 Little girl
Y 4 Maid
N 0 Medical Scene
N 0 Nun
N 3 With a Priest
Y 4 Rape Scene (one)
Y 2 Rape Scene (multiple)
Y 4 Pet
N 0 Pony Girl
Y 5 Secretary
Y 6 Student
Y 6 Teenager
Y 5 Torture Victim
HUMILIATION
Y/N # Activity
N 0 Act as objects (furniture, etc)
Y 6 Age Play
N 0 Bathroom use control
N 0 Bathroom use in front of others
Y 4 Blindfolds
Y 5 Boot worship
N 0 Chauffering
Y 6 Crawl on 4's
Y 6 Cross Dressing
Y 6 Curse words (Whore, Slut, etc)
Y 6 Curtsy in public
Y 6 Dom chooses food
Y 6 Dom chooses clothes
N 0 Enema
Y 3 Eye contact restrictions
Y 5 Foot worship
Y 6 Forced Cross dressing
Y 6 Forced dressing
N 0 Forced exercising
Y 5 Forced nudity
Y 5 Forced masturbation
Y 6 Forced prostitution (pretend)
Y 2 Forced slave auction
Y 5 Forced to be a slave
Y 6 Forced to wear a leash
Y 6 Forced to wear see-through clothes
N 0 Golden shower
Y 6 Harem--serving w/other(s)
Y 0 Hood
Y 6 Kneeling
Y 5 Maid services
Y 5 Mask
Y 2 Pet roles (act like a dog, cat, etc)
N 0 Pet play (force sex w/pet)
N 0 Scat Play
Y 5 Scolding
Y 5 Spitting in face
Y 5 Serve as ashtray
N 0 Serve as toilet
Y 4 Serve as waitress
Y 4 Serve others (supervised)
Y 4 Serve others (unsupervised)
N 0 Shave shead
Y 5 Shave body hair
Y 5 Shave pubic hair
Y 6 Slap face
Y 6 Spanking (public)
Y 5 Speech restriction
Y 3 Stand in corner
N 0 Suck pacifier
N 0 Swallow urine
Y 5 Take Pictures
Y 6 Take Video
Y 6 Verbal Abuse
Y 5 Wear Collar everywhere
N 0 Wear Diapers
Y 6 Write on body (slut, sissy, worthless, etc.)
BONDAGE
Y/N # Activity
Y 3 Arm Sleeves
Y 4 Blindfolds
Y 3 Breast bondage
Y 5 Gag
Y 5 Cage
Y 5 Chain
N 2 Chastity Belts
N 0 Genital bondage
N 0 Harness
N 0 Hoods
Y 0 Immobilization (short time)
Y 0 Immobilization (long time)
Y 0 Inside a closet
Y 0 Inside a coffin
N 0 Katherine wheel
Y 5 Leather cuffs
Y 5 Leather restraints
N 3 Leg Sleeves
Y 0 Mask
N 0 Mind
N 0 Mortuary bag
Y 5 Mouth bits
Y 5 Nipple Clamps
Y 0 Rack
Y 5 Rope
N 0 Saran wrapping
Y 5 Scarves
Y 5 Shackles
N 0 Sleeping bag
N 0 Sling
Y 6 Spreader bar
Y 5 Steel cuffs
Y 5 Steel restraints
N 0 Stock
Y 0 Straight jacket
N 0 Suspension (regular)
N 0 Suspension (up-side down)
N 0 Suspension (horizontal)
N 0 Tied to a cross
Y 4 Wrestling
EDGE/MIND PLAY
Y/N # Activity
Y 5 Abrasion
Y 5 Asphyxia
Y 1 Branding
Y 4 Choking
Y 4 Clothes Pins
Y 6 Cutting
N 0 Electric (violet wand)
N 0 Electric (muscle stimulant unit)
Y 6 Face slapping
N 0 Flesh Hooks
Y 0 Gang Rape scenes
Y 0 Genital (weights)
Y 4 Genital (cloth pins)
Y 0 Genital (pins/needles)
Y 1 Genital (rope)
N 0 Genital (vise)
Y 3 Genital whipping
Y 2 Gun Play
Y 6 Hair Pulling
Y 5 Hot wax
Y 4 Ice
N 4 Fire and Ice (same time)
Y 6 Knife play
Y 0 Medical scenes
Y 6 Needles
Y 6 Piercing
Y 4 Pinching
Y 6 Rape Fantasy
Y 6 Slap Face
N 0 Sleep deprivation
N 0 Tattoo
N 0 TENS units
Y 6 Tickling
Y 3 Tit (weights)
Y 5 Tit (cloth pins)
N 3 Tit (pins/needles)
Y 5 Tit (rope)
N 1 Tit (vise)
N 0 Torture rack
Y 0 Water torture
FETISH WEAR
Y/N # Activity
Y 6 Corsets
Y 4 French maid
Y 0 Child/Baby
Y 6 High Heels
Y 5 Leather
Y 5 Lingerie
Y 0 Mask
Y 0 PVC
Y 0 Rubber
Y 5 Slutty clothing
Y 0 Spandex
Y 5 Uniforms
Y 5 Victorian
SEXUAL D/S
Y/N # Activity
Y 3 Anal
Y 3 Anal beads
Y 4 Anal plugs (small)
N 0 Anal plugs (large)
N 0 Anal fisting
Y 4 Anal (vibrator/dildo)
Y 3 Ben-wa balls
Y 6 Bi-sexuality
Y 6 Chastity Belt (on submissive)
Y 6 Cock Worship
N 5 Force bi-sexuality for submissive
Y 6 Hand jobs/Fingering (giving)
Y 6 Hand jobs (receiving)
Y 5 Masturbation
Y 6 Orgy (more than 3)
Y 6 Oral sex (giving)
Y 6 Oral sex (receiving)
Y 6 Orgasm Control
Y 6 Orgasm Denial
Y 6 Phone sex (voluntary)
N 5 Phone sex (force submissive to have it with others)
Y 6 Sexual denial (short term)
N 6 Sexual denial (long term)
Y 5 Sexual Double Penetration
Y 6 Swallow semen
Y 6 Swapping
Y 6 Threesomes
Y 6 Vaginal sex
Y 3 Vaginal fisting
Y 5 Vaginal Toys
Y 5 Vaginal - Anal intercourse (same time)
Y 6 Voyeurism (watching submissive play w/others)
Y 6 Voyeurism (watching others play)

A simple way to use these scores, in order to determine the types of activities that two people will engage in together, is to add each person's score together with their prospective partner's score for the same item. If the combined score is 6 or less, the activity is one that they won't engage in together. It takes a minimum of 7 to result in an activity occurring.

(Why is that? Because if one of the two people has a 0 score, signifying a hard limit, even a 6 from the other person can't contradict it. If they had a 1, signifying that they'll only do the activity if it's really important to their partner, it'll take a 6 from the other person to meet that requirement. Same with 2 and 5 -- one person is uninterested but the other is enthused -- and then 3 and 4 -- one person is neutral and the other person likes it.)

7 and 8 would be sporadic activities, not done all that often.
9 and 10 would be activities that occur regularly, but not constantly.
11 and 12 would be activities that occur on an almost constant basis and are generally ingredients of virtually every scene the people play out.